
I Am Missing the Days of Rosie
During World War II we were free to be men; we were even encouraged to be. Every one of us took on jobs as riveters, assemblers and machinists. We built bombs by day and tended to our victory gardens by night.
We had all proven ourselves capable. But after the war we womenfolk seemingly became an enigma. We were reduced to “just a woman” in a man’s job. Deemed unnecessary in the fight of competitiveness that began about the time we left the factories. Our place was to be back in the kitchen—we were told to bake cookies. They said we’d no longer useful in working machinery.
Assembling a hearty breakfast for my husband at cockcrow, and packing his lunch is now my post war time effort. Bearing a child was an expectation society now laid upon me…it is something I endlessly have a dispassion for.
Milford made a predictable 5:30 am appearance at the table. Seated, he grabbed the gazette opening it to the first page. Taking a nippy break before looking at the unfavorable sports results, he said “You look pretty today, Emma.”
Interrupting my focused laying of the food in his lunch pail I turn, fronting a smile and nodding in thanks. I espied his overalls. They were buttoned right through the fly with a straight leg. They possessed big patch pockets on the chest for keeping things handy. Lust filled thoughts began to flood my head space…
I once donned coveralls made of blue denim myself. They had breast pockets to keep small tools in as well. My cuffs were forever tied responsibly tight keeping them from being caught in machinery.
I disagree with his well-meant compliment. My dress is far from “pretty.” Instead, it inhibits my ability to be a woman. I miss my pants. They belong to me as well, and I need to make every effort to wear them once again.
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GoogleMelissa, I absolutely love this story. I too have read all about the incredible women of World War II, and how they built aircrafts and weaponry and munitions while they still tended to their families, grew the Victory gardens and did all the amazing things that women always do. The fifties were really a horrible time for women, after all their hard work and rising to unbelievable challenges. The magazine ads from… Read more »
Fuji, I couldn’t love this comment more. You are so correct about the 50’s being a horrible time to be a woman! The magazine ads from the time encouraged women to seek prescriptions for “mother’s little helpers” to deal with what we now know to be postpartum depression. “Frigidness” and other such things as you have mentioned –these were just a few of the horrible things women had to endure in that… Read more »
I also spelled ‘frigidness’ wrong. It was too late to edit my comment once more. Apologies to all! ????
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GoogleHello Melissa – we corrected the spelling you mentioned. Thanks for pointing that out!
Thanks so much!
Melissa, I agree wholeheartedly that the women who lived/worked through the war in whatever country, played a huge, often downplayed role and society (aka us blokes) at the time was mad not to capitalise on that huge pool of talent post war and recognise women’s worth. Your story brings that message home on a very personal level. I was hoping Emma was going to give her hubby a piece of her mind!… Read more »
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GooglePaul, your comment gave me a chuckle! Poor Emma, in the 1950s women felt tremendous societal pressure to focus their aspirations on the wedding ring. Men being the head of the household, and normally the sole provider. Women were to be the homemaker and raise the children. I’m sure she wanted to give him a piece of her mind but that really wasn’t commonplace– I feel she is really torn between what… Read more »
Hi Melissa. Let me join the chorus of people who love this story! Those women were absolutely amazing and terribly underrated, treated like furniture or like possessions. I just watched a Father Brown detective episode (which takes place in the 50’s) where a woman gave birth just before her fiance returned from the war to marry her. Since she was unmarried when the baby was born, her baby was taken away and… Read more »
Thanks for this comment, Julie! I love the imagery you’ve described here: A construction worker nursing her baby, that’s quite lovely!
I’m glad someone asked this question! Yes, it is me. Several years ago I got in the habit of wearing my hair in Victory rolls. I’d actually go out in public, and people would comment. I thought this picture suited the story–thanks so much!
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GoogleHello, Melissa. They have already said all the great words for your story. And I will join those people who were extremely amazed and liked your story. Those women in world war II were amazing. And hats off for your advocate for strong feminity- it matters for all women. And because of that, I am one of your avid fans.
Hello, Lotchie. Thank you for your kind words! I’m glad you liked the story. As women we have come a long ways, here’s hoping that we never stop making progress!
You’re welcome, Melissa.
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GoogleHi Melissa, I really can’t add more than has already been said about this super story. I really do applaud women from that time period, and a little of them has been in us ‘til now, and will be for all time. I love that she lusted over the overalls! That was a genius little twist. Great stuff!
Thanks for your comment, Carrie! They should be applauded more but sometimes I think the 50s were lost between the 1940s and 1960s. The forties towering over every other decade in the way of sorrow, patriotism and ultimately hope. The sixties as the decade of turbulence, protests and disillusionment. The fifties certainly wasn’t the best time to be woman!
I totally agree with what the other commentators say about your very well written story and what happened during the 40s and 50s, and also what you said yourself about the 60s. Let me just add that in spite of the terrible and very limited role that most women endured during the 50s, there was no bad intention behind it. It was more a mixture of necessity and a naive dream about… Read more »
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To Leave Comments - Please SignIn with GoogleThanks for your comment, Christer. There is much more choice for women these days certainly. And the same can be said about men. Hooray for that, I say!
Melissa, I agree with what everyone else has already pointed out. The women of the 50’s were incredible, indeed. You showed that so beautifully in your story. The part about Rosie lusting over the overalls made me smile. I read Christer’s comment and I’m glad he pointed that part out too. From the stories on Voice Club, I’m learning so much about history. I love it! The picture you chose is brilliant… Read more »